Power Struggle...or Power Exchange?
Our society spends too much time placing both partners as equals in a relationship and ends up causing a continual power struggle. At Loving Authority we believe the balance in relationships is not achieved through a 50/50 partnership. We believe in a constant exchanging of power, we call power exchange.
In fetish communities and fantasy books you hear of a submissive or slave being controlled by the Dominant or Master. These books either lure you in or push you away while skimming over the truth. They make a great escape from reality, however, the books fail to mention the power the submissive or slave has in the situation. Submission is a gift given to the Dominant who has earned it. Likewise, Dominance is earned by the submissive creating a continual exchanging of power. Most relationships today have a Dominant persona and a submissive persona to them. Once you have grasped this concept you will see why we do not believe a 50/50 model works. You can not have two kings in a castle, but the King can have his Queen to rule with him.
Loving Authority seeks to strengthen the hidden power exchange in relationships and create a proper balance in that relationship, not through role play, but through practicum and discussions. Contact us to learn more about our approach.
There are positions and formalities that can both encourage equality, demonstrate respect, and encourage mental growth in a power exchange relationship.
Read more about the Value of Positions and Protocols here:
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